11 Ways You Can Get Your Girlfriend Interested in Porn
If you’re looking to liven up your sex life with your lady, and you think porn is the answer, here are 11 slow and sexy ways to get her interested!
Most girls, when their significant other mentions watching porn, turn up their nose and act disgusted. It’s an unfortunate reality, but that’s just how it is most of the time. For a lot of people out there, it can be a bit frustrating, if they want to kick-start the connection with their girlfriend by way of porn.
Porn is a tool that can be used to liven up your sex life, but a lot of women just cast it off without a second thought. This leaves many men both upset and wary of asking again, for fear that they may upset their girlfriends further—and we all know that no one wants to deal with a cranky girlfriend.
Personally, I can see where some girls may have a hard time accepting that their significant others watch porn—let alone actually enjoy it with their partner. Even if some women, including me, watch porn from time to time, sharing that privacy with their significant other can be a challenge all on its own.
So how can you get your girlfriend interested in porn?
There are many different steps you can take in order to pique your lady’s interest in the porn world. While it can be scary at times, these tips can ease some of that fear and help you proceed with your goal.
#1 Ease into the idea. Don’t tell her mid-hookup that you guys should watch porn. This is HUGE no-no. She will immediately dismiss the idea, and she may even dismiss you altogether! I can definitely understand that one.
Why? Because if you two are in the middle of some great foreplay and your thoughts are about porn, she is definitely going to think that she’s not enough to get you going. Even if that was not how you meant it, if you ask her in the middle of anything physical, she will think this and you will be doomed.
#2 Mention it calmly in a neutral setting. Don’t slip her the idea while her friends are all over for a fun get-together, and don’t mention it to her when you’re trying to get her naked. Mention the idea as if it’s a passing thought when the two of you are alone.
That way, she will be intrigued to know more about why you want to, and she won’t feel like she’s being pushed up against a wall and forced to make a decision. If the two of you are just calmly hanging out and a porn-like scene happens to pop up on a movie, make a comment about how it would be cool to try.
#3 Explain why it would mean a lot to you. Don’t start by saying how you want to make things more interesting in bed. She will quickly make the assumption that she’s not doing enough and that you’re bored—even if you just want to add something to your already-amazing sex life.
Explain that you love where things are, but maybe you can try something new—give it a little something that’ll take it from great to amazing! Just tell her what you’re thinking about it, and that it would be a great way to discover new things.
#4 Make her feel sexy about it. If you really want to get your girl thinking about trying porn with you, then tell her how attractive you think it is. By telling her that you think it would be really sexy to watch her watching porn, you’re taking the emphasis off the porn and focusing it on her.
This will then make her want to please you, because really, what girl doesn’t want to be the most attractive thing in their significant other’s life? She will start to see watching porn in a positive light, because it will make her look better in your eyes.
#5 Choose porn that is meant for couples. If you got her to agree to try porn, do NOT *and I repeat do NOT* start with a video that has 3 girls that are all young, hot, and in their prime. This will turn her off right away. No woman wants to be compared to one other woman, let alone 3 others that are naked and stunning.
Start with something softer and more couple-oriented. Getting her to watch something that’s romantic and sultry will get her more interested in that type of porn, but may also make her curious about the other types.
#6 Pay attention to her, too. I know it’s exciting to see different naked women on screen, but you have a really amazing naked woman right next to you in real life—appreciate her! If you’re paying too much attention to the video and not enough to her, she will get turned off and, quite frankly, insulted.
She agreed to watch porn with you, not watch you watching porn. That’s a quick way to make her feel inadequate.
#7 Let her be in the driver’s seat. Once you’ve introduced it, let her have a turn at picking out the video. Not only will it give her more confidence in the fact that you’re watching porn together, but you may also learn a thing or two about her tastes. This will help you out in pleasuring her even further.
#8 Show her how much it makes things better. Once you’ve got her watching porn with you, make sure she sees that it definitely revs your engine and makes getting jiggy with you that much better. By showing her that there’s a purpose and even a reward to her being interested in porn, she will more likely continue that behavior.
#9 Don’t use it every time. As much as it may make things a lot better in bed, you shouldn’t use it every single time. She will start to think that you’re dependent on it, and that can turn her off to watching it in the future.
You can use it frequently, but also make some nights special for her, and focus all of your attention on her. That way, she will realize that it’s her that gets you going and not just the porn. She will be much more interested in adding porn back into the mix if you do this once in a while.
#10 Make sure she knows that you don’t NEED it. Because, really, you don’t. In all honesty, you can probably manage without perfectly fine. But if you constantly use it in order to have sex with your lady, she’s going to get bored and uninterested in it—which is the opposite of what you want!
So toss the laptop aside some nights and keep things spontaneous. She will be dying to see what else you have in store and she will also be more accepting of throwing porn back in the mix next time.
#11 Do NOT pressure her. If your girl just doesn’t want to use porn as a part of your foreplay escapades, then do not pressure her. Nagging her about it will only make things worse, and she will feel like you need it because she’s not good enough. If you just plant the idea in her head and accept it if she says no, then she may wind up trying it to make you happy.
Every couple needs a little something extra in their sex lives sometimes. If porn is what you wish to use, it can be difficult to convince your girlfriend to give it a go. With these 11 tips, you will have an easier time getting her interested—and maybe even hooked!