It’s common knowledge that same-sex couples utilize their skills in bed way better than straight men and women. The thing is — they just understand their partners better than heterosexual people. It’s actually pretty simple. Since you know your body well, your sexual partner’s body won’t be difficult to figure out.
Of course, this doesn’t mean hetero couples can’t have great sex. It’s just way harder for them to understand each other’s sexual behaviors and needs. Men who have sex with other men will work their way to pleasure more easily. We’ll delve deeper into the reasons that make gay sex so amazing in this gay sex guide.
You Are Familiar With Each Other’s Body
One of the reasons why gay male sex (but lesbian intercourse as well) works so well is the fact that both partners are of the same gender. Knowing how your body works makes things a lot easier. This means that you won’t end up doing something entirely wrong. Even though lots of hetero couples won’t admit it, they often misunderstand their partner’s desires and what works for them.
Although we’re not saying all gay men are A-list porn stars (they’re not), the simple fact that you’re dealing with the same set of body parts on the other end makes it easier not to make mistakes. After all, you’ll know how to jerk each other off. Moreover, you’ll understand way better how to turn your partner on.
Unlike straight guys and girls, it’s not like you’ll have unrealistic expectations from your lover. Sure, we’ve all watched porn, which is full of overblown scenarios and acts, but it will be easier to pull some move off. Your personal experience will help you do things right.
No One Can Get Pregnant
Another quite obvious reason why gays have the upper hand when it comes to sex is the fact that they can’t get pregnant. The fear of unwanted pregnancy is one of the top reasons why hetero couples are more hesitant to have fun and experiment. On the other hand, gays just don’t have those kinds of worries.
The lack of this possibility makes it a lot easier to try out many different things. However, if you tend to switch partners, condoms still play a major role. Contracting HIV infections and other sexually transmitted diseases seriously isn’t cool. No matter if you’re gay, bisexual, or straight, sexual health care should always come first.
Prostate Orgasm
Just like the G-spot is important for female stimulation, the prostate is the best way to trigger a wholesome male orgasm. Since guys don’t have vaginas, and the only real penetration they can experience is anal sex, stimulating the prostate gland will make every encounter something special. Sure, you’re not guaranteed to reach a perfect climax, but it’s quite likely to occur.
What makes a prostate orgasm so great? Well, seeing how it’s practically the male G-spot, the sensation it brings is often described as something fuller than that reached by penile stimulation. The location of the gland allows penetrative sex from behind to easily trigger the deep and thorough feeling of satisfaction.
Gay and bisexual men will say that the overall experience it produces is something similar to an earth-shattering eruption of joy and fullness. It might seem like a bit of an overstatement, but try it, and you’ll see why they think so highly of it. After all, it’s not like straight guys don’t like when their female partners peg them.
It Feels Dirtier
Seeing how different sexual orientations still bare some prejudices, the gay culture is often considered taboo. Even though tales of homoerotic love and intercourses fill the pages of ancient Greek and Roman history, modern society still has a long way to go before fully accepting it. Having said this, it’s easy to understand why some couples like to keep their relationship a secret.
Because of these prejudices, quite a few people feel like they’re playing the old forbidden-fruit game. You know — not being able to have something makes it a lot more interesting and dirtier? Having gay sex can feel like this for many, and that’s what makes it even kinkier.
Oral Sex Is Better
Anal isn’t the only thing that makes a gay couple spill their load. Just like straight couples, queers can give head. With their intimate knowledge of what works for them, they can give far better head than most girls. Similarly to what we’ve mentioned earlier, knowing what pulls your strings will help you provide your partner with more pleasure.
Knowing when to speed up or to slow down, how to approach the act, or even when to stimulate the testicles makes gays far better experts on blowjobs. Sure, some girls know their business too, but there’s no way they can match perfect gay fellatio.
You Can Play With Two Dicks
Even though a contrast between a penis and a vagina seems like a wonderful deal, having two dicks in your hands is something else entirely. Jerking yourself and your partner off at the same time sounds quite kinky. Allowing him to play with your dick while you stroke his is an out-of-this-world experience. The two of you in love, seated in front of each other, jerking each other off ferociously isn’t something you can get with a girl.
Just imagine ejaculating at the same moment — wouldn’t that be cool? Well, the possibilities are endless, and playing around with two veiny dongs can lead to otherworldly climaxes. However, before you head into it with burning male desire and lust, be sure to keep your sexual activities safe. Playing around without condoms isn’t an idea we’d recommend at all, seeing how easily sexually transmitted infections can spread among gays.
